Although many say that love blooms in spring, for me love blooms in every season. This warm autumn reminds me of love, of my love that happened then.

I like to observe and talk to other women about love, about the search for that “Mr. Perfect” and about not losing your balance while “walking on the tightrope of love”.

It is often possible to single out two of, in my opinion, the most extreme types of women in terms of behavior in romantic relationships.

The first type is a woman who is gentle, romantic and kind, who enjoys life, spreads love and always has someone to take care of her. She lives for love. When she meets a man, she wants to please him in every way, to fulfill his desires and wishes, all so that she will always be loved. Unfortunately, there is a trap here.

With this kind of behavior and excessive people-pleasing, she often neglects herself, her previous life, needs and self-love. She stops dealing with her soul’s desires and becomes unhappy and dissatisfied. Over time, this leads to her becoming uninteresting to the very man who fell in love with her precisely because of her qualities, fulfillment and self-satisfaction.

Because of this, arguments and misunderstandings in relationships, along with break-ups often happen. This scenario can be repeated in subsequent relationships as well until people become aware of the pattern and resolve it.

Another type of woman, which is also very common, is the so-called strong woman. As soon as she meets a man, she tells him all about her achievements, business successes, how she speaks several world languages, how much she earns, how she achieved all of that by herself.

This seems logical, everyone wants to present themselves in the best light. However, one question arises here. Since she is so perfect and successful, why would she even need a man? And how does the man who is listening to that eulogy feel, what could he even offer such a perfect woman?

If a strong woman has money, an apartment, a career, perhaps she just needs a little tenderness, a gentle man who would love and support her, and maybe he doesn’t have to have a lot of money and a large career.

Remember, it is hard for a relationship of two “alphas” to survive. Become aware of yourself, who you are and choose accordingly. First of all, it is good to become aware of your true expectations, what do you really want and what do you really need in a relationship and in love.

Then the choice will be much easier.